For men
Healing resources, information and articles "Most of the men I talk to think about the abortion years after it is over.
They feel sad, they feel curious, they feel a lot of things; but usually
they have talked to no one about it. It's a taboo" — Sociologist Arthur Shostak This page contains articles about abortion's impact on men and links to resources, plus outreach projects. There is also helpful information on our healing page. Articles & research Men's stories
Resources for help, healing or further information
Outreach projects - Father's Day Ad Special report on men and abortion  First study of how abortion impacts men's relationships
A new study published in the peer-reviewed journal Public Health has found that abortion can impact relationships for both women and men. read more Post-abortion trauma in men still overlooked
by Catherine Coyle, Ph.D. [More than thirty] years have passed since the legalization of abortion in the United States. In those years, numerous studies have documented the potential negative effects of abortion on women. The effects of abortion on men however have been largely ignored by both the scientific community and American society. read more An online pilot study to investigate the effects of abortion on men by Catherine Coyle, R.N., Ph.D. The internet has changed many aspects of modern culture. It has provided a rapid means of communication to and from almost anywhere in the world. The internet has also proven to be a source of vast amounts of information on a multitude of topics including health, the sciences, current events, weather, and even humor. Recently, the internet has been used as a tool by social scientists to engage in online research. read more The impact of abortion on men When people think about the role of men in abortion, it seems that they usually think about the stereotype of the man who forces the abortion or the male who abandons. However, there are many roles the man may have played in the experience. One man may have been involved in several abortions, each with a different scenario. The impact on fathers is mitigated by the role they play in the abortion. They fall into separate categories. read more Men, abortion and suicide At this point, there are only a few studies examining the impact of abortion on men. Counselors who work with men after abortion say that men have reported a large number of problems that they claim were a direct result of their abortion experience. read more Forgotten fathers and their unforgettable children
by David C. Reardon, Ph.D. In the early seventies, Arthur Shostak accompanied his partner to a well-groomed suburban abortion clinic. They had both agreed abortion was best. But sitting in the waiting room proved to be a "bruising experience." By the time he left the clinic, he was shocked by about how deeply disturbed he had become. read more Restoring fatherhood lost
by Warren Williams Fathers become involved in an abortion in one of five ways: (1) they encourage or support the woman to choose abortion; (2) they pressure her to abort; (3) they abandon her to make the decision alone: (4) they unsuccessfully oppose the abortion; or (5) they learn about the abortion only after it has been done. read more Men and abortion, grief and healingby Wayne F. Brauning, M.Div., D.Min I have a friend whose father disappeared in Mexico. The loss has been more painful for him than if his father had died in his arms. How can one grieve for a father who has simply disappeared? For that matter, how can one grieve for a child who has simply "vanished?" read more Psychologists: APA deceptive on how abortion adversely affects women and men Two prominent psychologists are participating in the second national conference on the kind of profound grief and regret men can experience after their involvement in an abortion decision. They said the American Psychological Association missed the boat in a recent report on abortion's negative effects. read more 
That Day Ripped My Gut Out For every woman who has had an abortion a man has been involved. For me it was two abortions. read more One Man's Story
Abortion affects every life it touches . . . and for many, it hurts. I know. This is my story. read more Robert's Testimony (story from a man conceived in sexual assault)
Growing up I never really wondered who my real father was. At the age of 14 years old I questioned my mother for the first time. 'Who is my biological father?" She told me that he was not worth searching for. read more
Find more stories at www.menandabortion.info and www.fatherfoodforever.org Note: We will be adding more stories soon. Please check back to this page. The following are links to organizations and web sites offering information, counseling, research and resources on men and abortion. Inclusion in this list should not be taken as an endorsement of any group's programs or philosophy. If we have overlooked resources that should be included, please send an email to elliotinstitute@gmail.com. Some crisis pregnancy centers and church-based groups that offer counseling, Bible studies, or other healing programs for women after abortion may also have programs for men as well. Look in the Yellow Pages under "Abortion Alternatives" for groups that might offer such support. For more information about healing and finding a group that works for you, visit our healing page. The web site at www.menandabortion.info includes research, articles, personal stories, information and healing resources for men. It also includes information for counselors and others who provide post-abortion help to men. The Fatherhood Forever Foundation at www.fatherhoodforever.org/index.html is dedicated to helping men find healing and hope after abortion by creating awareness that abortion does have an impact on men and providing encouragement to those seeking help. Lists resources, including books, articles and healing/support organizations. The Men's Abortion Network at http://www.menandabortion.net/ is a network of researchers, counselors and others who promote healing and create awareness of men's abortion experiences. The site contains helpful articles and links to counseling resources. A speaker's bureau is also available. Additional resources, such as books and referrals for help, can be found at www.lifeissues.org/men/Resources.html. Rachel's Vineyard post-abortion healing ministry has information for men on their web site at www.rachelsvineyard.org/men/index.htm. The group provides support for women and men struggling after abortion through weekend retreats and email support. Women or men whose partners have experienced abortion are also invited to attend the retreats with their partner. The Abortion Recovery International web site at www.abortionrecovery.org lists groups that provide healing services for men, as well as for other family members such as grandparents or siblings who have been affected by abortion. Ramah International has a men's page with links to resources on their web site at www.ramahinternational.org/for-post-abortive-men.html. There is also a short page for men whose partners have experienced abortion at www.ramahinternational.org/post-abortive-spouse.html. Entering Canaan Days of Prayer and Renewal for men, sponsored by Lumina post-abortion healing ministry and the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, are held several times a year in New York City. These retreats are for men who have been involved in an abortion and/or whose spouse has had an abortion. For information on upcoming retreats, visit www.postabortionhelp.org. The Silent No More Awareness Campaign provides opportunities for men and women who have been involved in a past abortion to speak out about their experiences and advocate for an end to abortion and the damage it causes. Their focus is on education and raising awareness. For more information, visit www.silentnomoreawareness.org. SaveOne seeks to provide hope for women and men suffering after abortion. They offer help through group study, one-on-one help, and answering questions and giving encouragement through self-study. The Men's Study is a bible-study based workbook/guide to help men heal after abortion (a woman's version is also available). For more information, visit www.saveone.org. Abortion Changes You is a website giving women, men, family members and others involved in an abortion a safe place to share their experiences in a confidential and neutral environment. Includes articles, information and resources on coping with abortion and resolving the experience, along with links to local support and counseling groups. For more information, visit www.abortionchangesyou.com. For further information, help and healing |
healing info/tips help for those facing an unexpected pregnancy help for women affected by abortion help for other family members affected by abortion 
How You Can Help in Your Community Link to our men's page at www.theunchoice.com/men.htm on your site or blog. Share articles, research, personal stories and other information on abortion's impact on men. Join our Father's Day Outreach by downloading, copying and sharing our Father's Day ad/flyer. Use as an ad, poster or flyer. Can be used as an insert in newsletters, bulletins and other publications. A co-op version is available to which you can add information about local resources, events or sponsors. Speak out and share other educational materials, based on academic research showing abortion's human rights abuses and risks to women, children and families. Put a link to our Special Report on Men and Abortion on your web site, blog or social networking site. Link: http://www.theunchoice.com/EINews/2010Vol9/Vol9No7.htm | 
